Google Rank Not Showing My Site!!

My site BrainiacDating.com should come up #1 in the search for smart singles because it is the biggest dating site for smart singles with nearly 15,000 members. But not so! A Google search on the term "smart singles" brings me to esmartsingles.com - but this is a tiny site with almost no traffic except for the strays that wonder here through Google. (alexa.com shows a ranking of above 14 million.)



The reason for their high ranking is the way Google analyzes the site's HTML. On their home page I see:



TITLE: e Smart Singles online intelligent people personals for men and women.

META NAME="description" content="e Smart Singles has online intelligent personals for dating romantic men and women."

META NAME="keywords" content="e Smart Singles, free personal ads, affair, romantic men, intelligent personals, casual, fantasy, adult, sex, love, romance, secret, encounters, unfaithful, dating, erotic, chat, friendship girl, usa, american personals, internet friends, love, matchmaking"

It could be that Google reserves the term "smart singles" for paid advertisers if their is significant traffic, then Google knows that I can make money by selling this term. Aha... I can see that match.com has purchased this term as they come up at the top left of the page!